>> Thursday, July 15, 2010

I can't help but feel sad when I hear about someone's impending divorce.

When you make it to the marriage state, shouldn't one already have some conflict resolution patterns in place? Should one be as cautious but happier in marriage? As closely (rather even more closely) guarding the affections of your significant other? Are the vows just pretty words?

I don't quite know how to answer these questions.

But I hope I will be up to if if/when the time comes.

8 comments:

avanpiper July 15, 2010 at 6:06 PM  

love is blind. so is marriage. meaning in this context...you never can expect ur marriage/love life to be as pretty as you want it to be. I think love itself is a fragile thing though.

but since I've never fallen in love before I can't say much la in this matter. and it beats me too how one can love someone forever their life too xDDD

Lissa July 15, 2010 at 6:33 PM  

you're turning into a divorce lawyer?

avanpiper July 15, 2010 at 8:43 PM  

crime lawyer takes a lot of time and energy, damn challenging too right?

so maybe divorce and domestic lawyer is better? haha if me I sure do those only. >.<

so grace, what exactly are you doing now? ady graduate?

helyanwe July 15, 2010 at 9:10 PM  

Eh what? These are just musings. And nope, haven't graduated, will do so at the end of the year.

But to answer your questions, I am looking to be either a family/defence lawyer. Divorce is unfortunately an aspect of family law...so yes - and this can be split into 2 categories, property and child law.

Criminal law does take up a lot of energy, it is not necessarily challenging. It'll only be challenging once your good at it and more high end cases come to you. Defence lawyers probably get the least remuneration for their efforts.

The reason I choose these 2 fields is because anything that does not have to do with an aspect of an individual bores me. Like company law. I found that out when I took it this year. BLEARGH

flo.rence. July 15, 2010 at 11:18 PM  

love is not blind... but the person who is in love, is. It is up to the person to "open" up or continue being blind. So don't close your eyes in the beginning of a relationship. Then there is no need to "open" your eyes. :D Then no divorce.

Grace, family lawyer sounds good. Do you do will too?

helyanwe July 15, 2010 at 11:27 PM  

Good one Flore :)... and wills are under general practice. But they aren't so hard to do if you follow certain principles.

I noticed I spelled "your" instead of "you're". AGHASKLADS apologies.

flo.rence. July 22, 2010 at 5:50 PM  

correct le.. it's "your" eyes... No?

helyanwe July 25, 2010 at 6:40 PM  

Oh no I was talking about my own typo not yours :D

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